Thursday, September 27

A chance to make a difference

Anyone who may be interested in attending ~ please let me know.
There is no obligation or cost to attend!
You are Invited

Requests the honor of your presence at our

22nd Annual Fundraising Banquet
Tuesday, October 30, 2007
Chesapeake Conference Center
900 Greenbrier Circle, Chesapeake, Virginia

Keynote speaker - Gianna Jessen
~Aborted and Survived~

Doors open at 6:00 P.M. - Program and dinner begin at 6:30 P.M. - Business attire
Adult-centered event - R.S.V.P. DEADLINE: Friday, October 19th
Reservations Required
This banquet is a great opportunity to learn more about the ministries of
The Crisis Pregnancy Center of Tidewater.
Come to learn how this ministry is having an effect in our community.

Saturday, September 22

Day by Day

I haven't posted for a while...we have been running in circles it seems the last couple of weeks. Things are hopefully going to settle down into a normal routine now (we are hoping!) You get busy with life and sometimes it is just the little things that make your day. The weather has cooled down some...well, it is 90 degrees today, BUT the past week was so nice. I love fall and it is always fun to put out some fall decor. I don't have a lot, but it's just the little changes that are fun. And then of course our favorite fall date is going to Starbucks for a pumpkin spice latte. I love how our orange wall fits perfectly with fall. But I am a little concerned about Christmas time... We have acquired a little tree from a neighbor that was moving out, but I think I am slowly killing it... I'm not sure how much water or direct sunlight it needs and I think the leaves are not looking so great... oh well, we'll enjoy our little jungle at least until I kill all the foliage. :)


We are still alive and well!

Monday, September 10

I know parenting is the hardest job in the world and after reading this I realize I'm certainly not ready. Guess I'll go find a melon and a goat.... (and by the way, this is not any type of announcement!!)

Preparation for parenthood:

It's not just a matter of reading books and decorating the nursery. Here are 12 simple tests for expectant parents to take to prepare themselves for the real-life experience of being a mother or father.

1. Women: To prepare for maternity, put on a dressing gown and stick a pillowcase filled with beans down the front. Leave it there for 9 months. After 9 months, take out 10% of the beans.
Men: To prepare for paternity, go to the local drug store, tip the contents of your wallet on the counter, and tell the pharmacist to help himself. Then go to the supermarket. Arrange to have your salary paid directly to their head office. Go home. Pick up the paper. Read it for the last time.

2. Before you finally go ahead and have children, find a couple who are already parents and berate them about their methods of discipline, lack of patience, appallingly low tolerance levels, and how they have allowed their children to run wild. Suggest ways in which they might improve their child's sleeping habits, toilet training, table manners, and overall behavior. Enjoy it -- it'll be the last time in your life that you will have all the answers.

3. To discover how the nights will feel, walk around the living room from 5 pm to 10 pm carrying a wet bag weighing approximately 8-12 pounds, with a radio turned to static (or some other obnoxious noise) playing loudly. At 10 pm, put the bag down, set the alarm for midnight, and go to sleep. Get up at 12 and walk around the living room again, with the bag, until 1 am. Put the alarm on for 3 am. As you can't get back to sleep, get up at 2 am and make a drink. Go to bed at 2:45 am. Get up again at 3 am when the alarm goes off. Sing songs in the dark until 4 am. Put the alarm on for 5 am. Get up. Make breakfast. Keep this up for 5 years. Look cheerful.

4. Can you stand the mess children make? To find out, first smear peanut butter onto the sofa and jam onto the curtains. Hide a piece of raw chicken behind the stereo and leave it there all summer. Stick your fingers in the flower beds, then rub them on the clean walls. Cover the stains with crayons. How does that look?

5. Dressing small children is not as easy as it seems: first buy an octopus and a bag made out of loose mesh. Attempt to put the octopus into the bag so that none of the arms hang out. Time allowed for this: all morning.

6. Take an egg carton, using a pair of scissors and a pot of paint, turn it into an alligator. Now take the tube from a roll of toilet paper. Using only Scotch tape and a piece of foil, turn it into an attractive Christmas candle. Last, take a milk carton, a ping pong ball, and an empty packet of Cocoa Pops and make an exact replica of the Eiffel Tower. Congratulations! You have just qualified for a place on the play group committee.

7. Forget the BMW and buy a mini-van. And don't think that you can leave it out in the driveway spotless and shining. Family cars don't look like that. Buy a chocolate ice cream cone and put it in the glove compartment. Leave it there. Get a dime. Stick it in the cd player. Take a family-size package of chocolate cookies. Mash them into the back seats. Run a garden rake along both sides of the car. There. Perfect.

8. Get ready to go out. Wait outside the bathroom for half an hour. Go out the front door. Come in again. Go out. Come back in. Go out again. Walk down the front path. Walk back up it. Walk down it again. Walk very slowly down the road for 5 minutes. Stop to inspect minutely every piece of used chewing gum, dirty tissue, and dead insect along the way. Retrace your steps. Scream that you've had as much as you can stand until the neighbors come out and stare at you. Give up and go back into the house. You are now just about ready to try taking a small child for a walk.

9. Always repeat everything you say at least five times.

10. Go to your local supermarket. Take with you the nearest thing you can find to a preschool child -- a fully-grown goat is excellent. If you intend to have more than one child, take more than one goat. Buy your week's groceries without letting the goats out of your sight. Pay for everything the goats eat or destroy. Until you can easily accomplish this, do not even contemplate having children.

11. Hollow out a melon. Make a small hole in the side. Suspend it from the ceiling and swing it from side to side. Now get a bowl of soggy Cheerios and attempt to spoon them into the swaying melon by pretending to be an airplane. Continue until half the Cheerios are gone. Tip the rest into your lap, making sure a lot of it falls on the floor. You are now ready to feed a 12-month-old baby.

12. Learn the names of every character from Thomas the Train, Dora the Explorer, and the Wiggles.

When you find yourself singing "I’m the Map, I’m the Map, I’m the Map" at work, you finally qualify as a parent.